If you’ve been married for a few years now, you and your partner might have fallen into a routine – from who will make the bed in the morning to picking up the kids from school in the afternoon. And although having a routine can make your life easier, when it comes to your sex life, it’s best to spice things up from time to time and aim for variety. We, humans, are wired for versatility in the bedroom, so once we get married and start having sex with just one person, pretty much the same way, every time, that excitement and thrill we felt in the beginning can easily fade.
However, that doesn’t mean your sex life should become a chore. With a little bit of effort and thought, you can transform your mundane bedroom routine into a sexual paradise that will keep on delighting you and your partner.
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A Special Delivery for Her
Sure, women love flowers – they are a sweet and thoughtful gift. But how about sending her something a little more kinky? Sexy lingerie will always be a great way to start a steamy session in the bedroom. Browse the internet for premium ladies underwear and send her a package with her name when she’s home and you’re about to come home from work. To make the whole experience more exciting, you can also add a note that includes clear instructions on when she should wear it and wait for you to come to meet her. Sending an intimate gift like sexy ladies underwear is an excellent way to let your partner know that you think about them and they matter to you. Plus, the surprise and excitement of opening the package and finding something provocative in it can help set intimacy in motion.
Have Sex Before Going Out
Feeling tired, full and ready to hit the hay after a night out can be a real intimacy killer. And who said that having sex on a date night is reserved for the end of the night? So, instead of waiting to go out and go through the whole ordeal of date night, why not get busy while you’re still getting ready? If you have kids, ask the sitter to come an hour earlier and take the kids out for a walk. Being intimate and connecting early in the evening with your partner may add a whole new feel to the rest of the night. Plus, you can always have more of each other after dessert. And maybe you can even get some sex toys on your way back to double the fun.
Switch Locations
Instead of heading to the bedroom whenever you’re alone and have spare time for intimacy, why not stay where you are and get it on the spot? If you’re in the kitchen, have sex on the kitchen counter. Have a quickie in the hallway. Start your foreplay on the couch and end it on the dining table. Are you headed home just the two of you? Take it to the back seat. Just make sure you park somewhere you won’t get in trouble. It doesn’t matter where; the important thing is to pick a place that’s not your usual sex spot. The new setting, new lighting and textures will breathe life into your sex routine and help keep your intimacy on its toes.
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Have Sex in Front of a Mirror
Before you decide to have sex in front of a mirror, make a promise to each other that you will not judge or comment the way your bodies look in certain positions or the faces you both make during the act of passion. After that, set up a full-length mirror in your bedroom, by your bed, or position yourself in front of a closet mirror. Watch your curves, your hubby’s figure and your bodies as they move together as a whole. Seeing how you look while having a sexual connection can be very sexy and arousing for both of you.
Have an Affair With Your Partner
Remember Juliana and Clive Bixby’s steamy adventures? Yup, exactly – Modern Family’s long-married couple Phill and Claire are the perfect example of having a faux affair with your partner. They’d meet up in different locations every Valentine’s Day and pretend they were meeting each other for the first time and develop a passionate attraction that they could only enjoy that night. If you, too, are up for this game, plan a date with your partner, and both pretend that you have left your spouse at home and are looking for a one night stand. Use your imagination and do whatever works for you! Many intimacy experts claim that one of the reasons why most couples cheat is because they want to feel more sexually uninhibited, just because it’s taboo. So, go ahead and try this one, who knows where this faux affair can lead you. Even getting ready for it might make both of you hot with anticipation.
